Safe sex means having sexual intercourse with a partner by using condom so that the women do not get pregnant. It was called “safe sex” because to many men and women, being pregnant when they don't want to, can be really scary. It brings a life changing situation and adds more unwanted pressure.
There are many youngsters who engage in sexual intercourse in their early ages and getting a girl pregnant at that age is neither an option nor a smart idea. So to avoid any such consequences it is advised by almost all the sex trainers or doctors to use condom and have safe sex.
The new meaning:
Now since pregnancy is not that much scary anymore, thanks to condom, the meaning of safe sex is changed. Much before a couple used to engage in sexual intercourse only when they were deeply in love with each other or was in a committed relationship. Now having sex with a stranger or on first date is very normal and casual.
You don't even have to be in a committed relation to sleep with another gender. The sex drive has increased a lot in today's generation. Most of the men and women look for some casual sex without any strings attached. The problem arises when either one of the partner grows feeling for that person and fall in love with him or her. Now it has became the scariest thing as because you wanted to have a casual, one night stand, and no strings attached type but ended up falling in love or make that person fall in your love.
It makes the entire matter very complicated and unfortunately either both or one of them ends up getting hurt. To avoid such situation it is recommended to engage in safe sex. Safe sex means having casual and one time type of sex with such a person who wants the same thing. It simply means to have sex with whom your demands, mentality and needs match with. It is called safe sex.
How to achieve that?
Just look for some one with same sexual urges and needs if you want to engage in sexual intercourse. Go on more and more dates and find out the compatibility and whether the mentality matches or not. It does take a lot of time and patience but the end result will be much more beautiful. Now if you don't have that much of patience then you can try out the dating web sites.
Having a safe sex has become a lot easier with online dating sites where different people have made their profile based on their needs and demands. They are longer for finding your true soul mates but also to find out someone with whom you can engage in one night stand. With these sites you can be assured that you don't have to call back the person you had sex with on the next day.
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