Of all the troubles, a guy might deal through his life, taking an initiative and asking his crush out can be a really difficult one for him. However, with a few ideas, you can easily get over your hesitations and problems, and make your attempt.
Let Not Your Fear Of Rejection Hold You Back
Fear of rejection is one of the most significant hurdles that have been trashing innumerable “crush-stories” all across the globe. You find her amazing, wish to talk to her, and to ask her out. However, there is something deep inside, that holds you back from doing it. No matter how hard you try to avoid it, it dominates the scenario.
It is quite normal, and almost every next guy deals with it. However, you need to manage to overcome it and make your approach. Once you have done that, no matter whether she agrees or not, one thing is sure that you would never regret for not taking the initiative on the first hand. In fact, you would always be regretful and in pain all through your life, for not taking your chance at least, if you miss it now. Hence, it is far better to take your chance and welcome her reply, than fearing the consequences. Besides, how could you be so certain that she would reply negatively, and why can't you be an optimist?
A “No” Now Might Not Be Forever
What matters is, taking the initiative, and using your courage to approach her. You might think that her “yes” or “no” would matter a lot. Indeed, it can to an extent, but you know what, by approaching her, you have simply struck the bell inside her. Possibly, this is for the very first time that she has come to know about your interest in her.
Above all, even if she replies with a “No”, that does not mean it is forever. If you have been able to create your space in her thoughts, it is all worth it. Nothing else matters, not even her “No”. Gradually, with the passage of time, she might think over it and decide to go out with you. Give “time” some time.
Remember! You Have Numerous Options
This can be your biggest strength, while asking your crush out. It is not something just meant to give you a false confidence, or to boost your morale for the time being. However, in reality, the thing is you always have numerous options. Even if she says a “No”, there are many girls out there. Besides, now that you have already made your very first attempt, you will not hesitate much the next time.
Hence, you need to remember the fact that there is no scarcity of girls out there, and by asking her out, you are just taking your chance with one of those. After all, crushes come and go. Yet, with such a practice and confidence, you might soon end up getting a true love from one of your next crushes.
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